Hello! It has really been a while and there is no excuse for me abandoning my blog and my precious readers but a lot has happened during this time. For instance: I'm now in year 11 and the stress and work is piling on and on as I'm talking. Please do respect the fact that I have to put my work first and this blog is a hobby, but I will make sure that I will include more new exciting posts and that this blog can be a break from revision and something fun to do in my own spare time.
I'm guessing that most of my readers now are pretty young and the same age as myself which is sixteen or around that age. Well, we have all experienced high school where we all change- I for one definitely have as I am not the person I expected to be before going into high school. With school, you always get rumors going around about anyone- you always hear something and sometimes its unfortunate when it's about you. But how do you deal with it?
Simply IGNORE it. Sounds easy right? It actually is. Most of the time it's hard not to give a care because you get defensive when somebody says something that's possibly untrue or maybe you just don't want them to interfere in your business- fair enough. But trust me, as long as you know what's true then you don't need to justify yourself to ANYONE. Even if your best friend doesn't believe you, forget them! I find it more funny when they're talking bad about you and they're wasting their time.
It is hard:High school does change people-mainly depending on who you actually chill with. For me, I have hung out with different types of groups and it did take me a long time to find who I was actually comfortable with. I mean yeah, I do still feel as if I don't fit in at times so mainly I just talk to people one-by-one instead.
My advice to all of you guys out there is to just avoid people who spread rumors/apart of it because they don't deserve your time at all.
Stay beautiful, Elaine Chu xxx
